High Maintenance, Easygoing or a Pushover?

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🎬 Texto da aula

Cena: Chandler, Monica e os outros amigos conversam sobre personalidade e relacionamentos. Uma brincadeira acaba fazendo Monica questionar se ela é uma pessoa “high maintenance”, enquanto Phoebe é considerada “flaky” e outra pessoa é chamada de “pushover”.

📖 The Conversation

Chandler:
Hey. It’s only you. Wh-what are you doing?

Joey:
We are looking at a Playboy.

Rachel:
Oh, I want to look, too.

Joey:
Yikes!

(laughs)

Rachel:
So, do you think that these pictures… are they trying to tell a story?

Joey:
Oh, well, yeah, sure.

I mean, like in the case of this young woman, she has lost her clothes, so…

Rachel:
So she rides naked on the horse, she’s crying out, “Where are they? Where are they?”

Joey:
Well, she’s not going to find them lying in the grass like that.

(laughing)

Joey:
God…


🐴 Talking about the pictures

Joey:
Oh, remember the days when you used to go out to the barn, lift up your shirt and bend over?

Rachel:
Yeah.

Joey:
You see, now… see, now, I would date this girl.

She’s cute; she’s outdoorsy.

You know, and she knows how to build a fire.

I mean, that’s got to come in handy.

Rachel:
Hey, I got a question.

If you had to pick one of us to date, who would it be?

Joey:
I don’t know.

Rachel:
Me, neither.

Joey:
Rachel.

Rachel:
What?

Joey:
I don’t know.

Rachel:
Me, neither.


💭 Monica gets involved

Monica:
Hey.

Oh, don’t you guys look cute.

You guys make such a cute couple.

Rachel:
Monica, what are you doing?

Monica:
Nothing.

I’m just trying to recreate some of the fun that we had at my place the other day.

Remember?

When you picked Rachel over me?

Joey:
(laughing)

That was funny.

Monica:
Yes, it was kind of funny.

Joey:
It wasn’t funny at all.

Monica:
Why would you do that?

Why didn’t you pick me?

Joey:
Fine.

The reason that I was leaning a little bit more toward Rachel than you is just, you know, you’re… kind of high maintenance.

Monica:
Okay, let’s go to lunch.

That… that is completely untrue.

You think I’m high maintenance?

Joey:
Okay, prove it.

I want you to write out a list and we’re going to go through it point by point.

No, you’re right. You’re easygoing.

You’re just not as easygoing as Rachel.


🧠 Personality types

Joey:
You know, she’s just more… flexible and mellow, that’s all.

Monica:
Well, people are different.

Joey:
Yeah.

You know, Rachel—she’ll do whatever you want, you know?

You can just walk all over her.

Monica:
What?

Wait a minute.

What, are you saying I’m a pushover?

Joey:
I’m not a pushover.

Monica:
Oh, okay.

You’re not a pushover.

Oh, my…

You think I’m a pushover.


🍽️ Monica proves her point

Monica:
Well, watch this.

You know what?

You’re not invited to lunch.

What do you think of that?

Joey:
I think that’s pretty strong, is what I think.

Monica:
Come on, Joey. Let’s go to lunch.

Joey:
You start working on that list!

Joey:
I cannot believe her.

Rachel:
I know.

Joey:
Where do you want to go eat?

Rachel:
Oh… oh! I love that Japanese place.

Joey:
I’m sick of Japanese.

Rachel:
We’re not going there.

Joey:
All right.

Well, wherever you want to go is cool.


🧩 Phoebe’s personality

Joey:
Phoebe, we would like to talk to you for a second.

Phoebe:
Okay.

Joey:
So…

Maybe I am a little high maintenance, and maybe Rachel is a little bit of a pushover.

But you know what we decided that you are?

Phoebe:
Yes?

Joey:
We are very sorry to tell you this, but you, Phoebe, are flaky.

Phoebe:
Ha! That’s true.

I am flaky.

So, what?

Joey:
You’re just, uh… you’re just okay with being flaky?

Phoebe:
Yeah, totally.

Monica:
Well, then I’m okay with being high maintenance.

Rachel:
Yeah, and I am okay with being a pushover.

Phoebe:
That’s great.

Joey:
Good for you guys!

Monica:
I am not high maintenance!

Rachel:
And I am not a pushover!

Phoebe:
Who said you were?!

Monica & Rachel:
You did! You did!

Phoebe:
I’m flaky. I’ll say anything.

Vocabulário

🧠 Vocabulário essencial

Inglês Português
outdoorsy que gosta de atividades ao ar livre
build a fire fazer/acender uma fogueira
come in handy ser útil
pick someone escolher alguém
recreate recriar
lean toward tender para / preferir
high maintenance exigente / que dá muito trabalho
prove it prove isso
write out escrever detalhadamente
point by point ponto por ponto
easygoing tranquilo / fácil de lidar
flexible flexível
mellow tranquilo / relaxado
walk all over someone passar por cima de alguém
pushover pessoa que facilmente cede aos outros
strong forte / firme
wherever onde quer que
flaky instável / pouco confiável / meio desligado
totally totalmente / com certeza
Good for you! Que bom para você! / Muito bem!

⭐ Expressões importantes

High maintenance

Não significa simplesmente “manutenção alta”.

Quando falamos de uma pessoa:

She’s high maintenance.

significa que ela é muito exigente, precisa de muita atenção ou dá bastante trabalho para lidar.


Easygoing

You’re easygoing.

É alguém tranquilo, relaxado e fácil de lidar.

É praticamente o oposto de high maintenance.


Pushover

Essa é uma palavra muito interessante.

Are you saying I’m a pushover?

Uma pushover é uma pessoa que cede facilmente à vontade dos outros, que tem dificuldade em dizer não ou impor sua opinião.


Walk all over someone

You can just walk all over her.

Não significa literalmente “andar sobre ela”.

É uma expressão idiomática que significa se aproveitar de alguém / fazer o que quiser com a pessoa porque ela não impõe limites.


Come in handy

That’s got to come in handy.

Significa:

“Isso vai ser útil.”

Exemplo:

This tool will come in handy.

= Essa ferramenta vai ser útil.


Lean toward

I was leaning a little bit more toward Rachel.

Significa estar mais inclinado a escolher uma opção.

Exemplo:

I’m leaning toward the blue one.

= Estou mais inclinado a escolher o azul.


Write out

Write out a list.

Significa escrever algo por completo/detalhadamente.


Good for you!

Dependendo da entonação, pode ser sincero ou sarcástico.

Good for you!

Pode significar:

“Que bom para você!”

ou, sarcasticamente:

“Parabéns para você…”

Isso é ótimo para ensinar ao aluno que contexto e entonação importam tanto quanto as palavras.

Compreensão

❓ Questões de compreensão

1. What are Joey and the others looking at?

A) A newspaper
B) A magazine
C) A photo album
D) A movie


2. Who does Joey say he would date?

A) Monica
B) Phoebe
C) Rachel
D) None of them


3. Why does Joey prefer Rachel over Monica?

A) Rachel is more attractive.
B) Rachel is more easygoing and mellow.
C) Rachel is richer.
D) Rachel is more intelligent.


4. What does Joey mean when he calls Monica “high maintenance”?

Explique com suas próprias palavras.


5. What does Monica think Joey is implying when he says Rachel is easygoing?

A) That Rachel is boring.
B) That Rachel is a pushover.
C) That Rachel is rude.
D) That Rachel is unreliable.


6. Why does Monica refuse to go to lunch with Joey?

Responda em inglês.


7. What does Phoebe say about herself?

A) She’s high maintenance.
B) She’s a pushover.
C) She’s flaky.
D) She’s easygoing.


8. In the sentence “I might as well…”, what kind of idea does the expression communicate?

A) Something is impossible.
B) There is no reason to do something.
C) Given the situation, doing something seems like a reasonable option.
D) Someone is angry.


✍️ Writing Practice

Personality Test

Imagine that someone is describing your personality to a new friend.

Escreva 6–8 frases em inglês explicando:

  • se você é easygoing ou high maintenance;
  • se você costuma ceder facilmente ou não;
  • como você reage quando alguém discorda de você;
  • se você é mellow ou mais intenso;
  • uma característica sua que pode ser considerada flaky;
  • e uma característica que você considera positiva em sua personalidade.

Tente utilizar pelo menos 3 expressões da aula:

high maintenance · easygoing · pushover · mellow · come in handy · lean toward · walk all over someone

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